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The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman

She Comes First

$ 15 
$ 17 

Fun, informative, and easy to read, She Comes First is a virtual encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for satisfying a woman and illustrated step-by-step instructions to ensure success.

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As women everywhere will attest, when it comes to understanding female sexuality, most guys know more about what's under the hood of a car than under the hood of a clitoris. And while it seems that men have struggled valiantly since the dawn of time to find ways to reliably elicit the female orgasm, rare is the guy who has the modesty to ask "What do I do?" ironically, the answer has always been right there on the tip of his tongue. Welcome to the world of She Comes First, where the mystery of female satisfaction is solved and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to Ian Kerner, clinical sexologist and evangelist of the female orgasm, oral sex has long been deemed an optional aspect of foreplay, but, in fact, it's coreplay... simply the best way for leading a woman through the entire process of sexual response. Fun, informative, and easy to read, She Comes First is a virtual encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for satisfying a woman and illustrated step-by-step instructions to ensure success. These simple methods represent a new era in sexual intimacy, one in which the exchange of pleasure occurs on a level playing field and fulfillment is mutual. She Comes First offers a fresh new sexual philosophy that inspires every man to make the mantra of Rhett Butler's infamous line to Scarlett O'Hara, "You should be kissed, and often, and by someone who knows how."

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Licensed sex therapist, Kristin B. Hodson, has created videos with hands-on demonstrations and explanations that put values-based sex education first.
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Compare what you know about yourself to what we know about our products. Is this quiet? Tricky to use? Good for partner play?
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She Comes First
whisper quiet
wait 'til they're sleeping
learning my body
know my body
approachable
edgy
intuitive
keep the manual!
partner play
solo play

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